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Author: marshaandes77@yahoo.com
Introduction
There’s something truly magical about the number 3. It shows up everywhere—in nature, in culture, in spirituality. And in the holistic space, it holds profound significance.
In many traditions and healing modalities, 3 represents balance, wholeness, and the interconnectedness of all things. Whether it’s mind, body, and spirit, or past, present, and future, the triad speaks to the idea that healing and transformation are multi-dimensional.
In reflexology, we don’t just work on the feet—we work with the whole person, and this often unfolds across three key dimensions: mind, body, and spirit.
Let’s explore how the power of 3 influences holistic wellbeing:
Mind – Body – Spirit
This is perhaps the most well-known triad in holistic health. These three elements are deeply interconnected—and for true healing to occur, all three must be nourished.
The mind holds our thoughts, beliefs, and inner narratives.
The body carries those thoughts and emotions physically—often manifesting dis-ease when the mind is out of balance.
The spirit (or soul) is our deepest essence, connected to purpose, intuition, and meaning.
When one is out of alignment, the others feel it. Holistic therapies like reflexology, reiki, and breathwork aim to bring these three back into harmony.
Past – Present – Future
In healing work, the past often holds the roots of present challenges.
The present is where transformation begins.
The future is shaped by what we choose today.
Acknowledging all three—without becoming stuck in any of them—is key.
Reflection, awareness, and intention create a powerful triangle of change.
The Healing Triangle
Some practitioners work with three points of healing:
Awareness (what you know)
Acceptance (what you allow)
Action (what you do)
This model empowers clients to shift from stuck patterns to conscious evolution. No forced changes—just a natural flow from insight to integration.
Why 3 Works
Three creates a stable structure—just like a tripod.
Two points create tension. Three points create balance.
In storytelling, it’s the beginning, middle, and end.
In design, it’s the rule of thirds.
In energy healing, it’s the balance of giver, receiver,
and universal life force.
There’s rhythm and completeness in the number three. It speaks to cycles, harmony, and the sacred geometry of life.
How to Work With the Power of 3
You don’t need to overthink it—just notice where threes
naturally occur in your practice or life:
Start each day by checking in with your mind, body, and spirit.
Create affirmations with a three-part rhythm.
(E.g., “I am safe. I am strong. I am supported.”)
Mind. Body. Spirit in Reflexology
This triad of the Mind, Body and Spirit is central to holistic therapy. In reflexology, we might be physically touching the feet, face or hands—but we’re doing far more than working on the body.
Each reflex point connects to an organ, a system, and an energetic frequency. As we stimulate these points, we:
Calm the mind – reducing stress, anxiety, and overthinking.
support the body – easing physical tension and boosting circulation.
Balance the spirit – bringing emotional release, deeper intuition, and inner peace.
Clients often say they come in feeling heavy and leave feeling grounded and “whole” again. That’s the power of addressing all three layers of self through reflexology.
Three Sessions for Deeper Healing
While many clients feel benefits after just one session, there’s something truly transformational about working in a rhythm of 3.
Session 1 brings awareness: it opens the body, begins to shift blockages, and reveals areas of imbalance.
Session 2 supports deeper release: as trust builds and the nervous
system relaxes, deeper healing begins.
Session 3 encourages integration: the body starts to find its new rhythm, and balance begins to hold.
That’s why I often suggest starting with a package of three sessions—it mirrors the natural cycle of beginning, unfolding, and settling. It’s not about rushing—it’s about honoring the body’s own rhythm of healing.
Try this:
In reflexology, as in life, healing happens in threes.
It’s not just what we do—it’s the space we hold, the rhythm we honour, and the whole person we support.
When we approach healing through the lens of mind, body, and spirit, real transformation begins.
Book a series of three sessions and notice how your body responds differently each time.
Set a 3-part intention before your session
(e.g. “Let go. Trust. Receive.”)
After your session, check in with your head, heart, and gut—
what do each feel, need, or know?
With Love & Light
Marsha x
Categories
Stress and our Physical Health
We all feel a little stressed from time to time, its a part of being human. However, sometimes, particularly in today’s fast-paced world, stress has become something that we experience far too often. Our body clan handle a little stress such as being stuck in traffic or missing our train for example. However, if we are finding it difficult to shake off a heavy feeling or find being in a constant state of stress, it can show up in our physical body.
When we experience stress, our body goes into “fight or flight” mode, releasing hormones like cortisol and adrenaline. While this response is helpful in short bursts, chronic stress can take a serious toll on our well-being.
Stress can affect all the systems in our body: the musculoskeletal, respiratory, cardiovascular, endocrine, gastrointestinal, nervous, and reproductive systems.
🌿 Weakened Immune System – Long-term stress reduces the body’s ability to fight infections, making us more susceptible to colds, flu, and other illnesses.
💔 Heart Problems – Chronic stress increases blood pressure and inflammation, raising the risk of heart disease and strokes.
😴 Digestive Issues – Stress can disrupt digestion, leading to problems like bloating, IBS, or acid reflux.
🧠 Hormonal Imbalances – For women, stress can impact menstrual cycles and fertility by disrupting hormone production.
😓 Muscle Tension & Pain – Stress often manifests as tight shoulders, headaches, and body aches due to prolonged muscle tension.
Everyday stress can turn into chronic stress if it becomes long-term and we don’t find stress management techniques to reduce the effects and restore balance.
Managing Stress for Better Health
Managing stress does not always need huge financial investment. There are lots of techniques that can help us de-stress: deep breathing exercises, maintaining a healthy social network, meditation, regular exercises / movement, walking and a good sleep routine can make a significant difference in how our body responds to stress.
It is also important to maintain a healthy diet with plenty of fresh fruits, vegetables, wholegrains, protein and drinking an adequate amount of water. This gives our body a fighting chance to function during stressful situations.
Taking care of your mind means taking care of your body. Prioritising relaxation and self-care isn’t a luxury—it’s essential for long-term health and well-being.
Marsha Andes
M.A. Reflexology
Loving yourself isn’t selfish—it’s essential. When we take time to care for ourselves, we have more energy, patience, and love to give to those around us.
Self-care isn’t indulgence; it’s a necessity.
Here are some simple ways to nurture yourself this month:
Take time to rest – Prioritise sleep and relaxation to recharge your body and mind.
Nourish yourself – Enjoy wholesome, heart-loving foods that fuel your well-being.
Book a Reflexology session – Release stress, restore balance, and reset your energy.
Move mindfully – Gentle movement, such as yoga or walking, helps you reconnect with yourself.
Speak kindly to yourself – Daily affirmations and gratitude practices can shift your mindset towards self-compassion.
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Show Your Heart Some Love
February is Heart health Awareness Month. Visit https://www.bhf.org.uk/how-you-can-help/support-our-campaigns/heart-month for more information on heart health.
A healthy heart is the foundation of overall wellness – small daily habits can make a big difference. Nourishing your body with healthy foods including a wide variety of fruits, vegetables, legumes, nuts, fibre Move Your Body – Regular movement, whether it’s walking, yoga, or a full workout, keeps your heart strong and helps manage stress. Prioritise Rest – Quality sleep is essential for heart health. Aim for 7-9 hours of restful sleep each night.Manage Stress – Chronic stress can take a toll on your heart. Reflexology, deep breathing, or mindfulness practices can help restore balance. Show Yourself Some Love – A happy heart is a healthy heart! Connect with loved ones, laugh often, and take time for self-care.
How Reflexology Supports Circulation & Cardiovascular Health
Encourages Better Blood Flow – By stimulating specific reflex points, Reflexology helps improve circulation, ensuring oxygen and nutrients reach your cells more efficiently.
Reduces Stress & Lowers Blood Pressure – Reflexology promotes deep relaxation, helping to lower stress hormones such as cortisol and helps to reduce blood pressure.
Supports Lymphatic Drainage – Gentle pressure on reflex points helps stimulate the lymphatic system, reducing fluid retention and improving detoxification.
Enhances Relaxation & Sleep – Poor sleep and chronic stress can impact heart health. Reflexology encourages better rest by calming the nervous system.
Balances the Nervous System – The heart and nervous system are deeply connected. Reflexology helps shift the body into a parasympathetic state (rest-and-digest mode), reducing tension and promoting overall cardiovascular health.
This month, prioritise your heart health with regular Reflexology sessions to support circulation, reduce stress, and restore balance.
Facial reflexology is a gentle and rejuvenating therapy that works on reflex points in the face to promote relaxation and enhance overall well-being. Here are some of its incredible benefits:
- Improves Circulation
Encourages better blood flow, giving your skin a natural, radiant glow and supporting cellular repair. - Releases Tension
Eases tension in the face, neck, and shoulders, which can help reduce headaches and jaw discomfort. - Promotes Relaxation
Calms the nervous system, helping to relieve stress and encourage a state of deep relaxation. - Boosts Lymphatic Drainage
Helps reduce puffiness and improve skin tone by stimulating the lymphatic system to remove toxins. - Supports Natural Healing
Activates reflex points connected to various organs and systems, promoting balance and wellness throughout the body. - Enhances Skin Health
Stimulates collagen production and improves elasticity, reducing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. - Improves Sleep
Encourages relaxation and balance, making it easier to achieve restful, restorative sleep. - Balances Hormones
Supports hormonal balance, which can benefit skin conditions and overall mood. - Boosts Emotional Well-being
Encourages the release of feel-good hormones, leaving you feeling calm, uplifted, and refreshed.
Facial reflexology not only supports inner health but also enhances outer beauty, making it a truly holistic wellness experience.
The start of a new year can be the perfect time to reflect on your well-being and set meaningful goals that prioritize your health and happiness. Instead of overwhelming yourself with unrealistic resolutions, focus on creating achievable, wellness-centered intentions that will enrich your life throughout the year. Here are seven ways to set and stick to those goals:
1. Reflect on Your Current Wellness
Grab a journal and take stock of where you are in your wellness journey. Consider the following areas:
- Physical health: How are your energy levels, fitness, and nutrition?
- Mental health: Are you managing stress effectively and finding time to unwind?
- Emotional well-being: Do you feel connected to yourself and others?
- Spiritual balance: Are you aligning with your values and finding purpose?
2. Set Intentions, Not Resolutions
Intentions focus on the journey, not just the outcome. For example:
- Instead of “I will lose 10 pounds,” try “I will nurture my body with nourishing food and regular movement.”
- Instead of “I will be less stressed,” try “I will carve out daily moments for mindfulness and relaxation.”
3. Be Specific and Realistic
Vague goals are harder to achieve. Use the SMART criteria to make your goals:
- Specific: Define exactly what you want to achieve.
- Measurable: Determine how you will track progress.
- Achievable: Ensure the goal is realistic for your current circumstances.
- Relevant: Align the goal with your overall wellness priorities.
- Time-bound: Set a timeframe for achieving your goal.
4. Break It Down
Big goals can feel overwhelming. Break them into smaller, manageable steps. For example:
- Goal: Practice self-care regularly.
- Steps: Schedule one hour per week for a massage, reflexology session, or long bath; spend 10 minutes daily journaling or meditating.
5. Celebrate Small Wins
Acknowledging progress keeps you motivated. Celebrate milestones along the way—whether it’s trying a new healthy recipe, completing a workout, or sticking to your mindfulness routine for a week. Don’t forget to reward yourself.
6. Create a Nurturing environment
Make your environment work for you:
- Stock up on wholesome, healthy foods such as lentils, legumes, nuts, seasonable vegetables.
- Set up a calming space at home for meditation or yoga.
- Share your goals with a friend or join a supportive community.
7. Cultivate Gratitude
Gratitude enhances overall well-being by shifting your focus to what’s positive in your life. Here’s how to make gratitude a part of your year:
- Keep a gratitude journal and write down three things you’re thankful for each day.
- Express appreciation to those around you through words or gestures.
- Reflect on your progress and celebrate the journey.
Setting wellness-focused goals is about creating habits that bring balance, joy, and health to your life. Whether you’re starting small or aiming big, remember that every step counts. Here’s to a year filled with wellness, gratitude, and growth! Let me know if you’d like guidance or support as you embark on this journey.